There is nothing sweeter than the feeling of her furry little head as she rests upon my shoulder in the rocking chair and her little body relaxes into mine as sleep takes over. I love feeding Zoe before I go to sleep because it's our quiet bonding time. It's also a brief period that won't last and that makes it so much more valuable. I was sad when London transitioned from the bottle because it meant we had moved on to a new stage in our lives-a bittersweet feeling.
London does come to me for tons of hugs and kisses throughout the day which ease the loss of the afore-mentioned time and that is a wonderful feeling too. There's nothing better than when your little girl jumps on your lap for a book reading or comes up to hug your legs and says "I love you mommy". Every day has a few of these moments waiting like little jewels, laying in wait amongst the mundane chores and normal occurrences. So fulfilling and something wonderful to look forward to.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Buster the Bunny and Some Delicious Pancakes
Woohoo!!! I can actually say I've found my stride as mom of two and can successfully go places with both girls without feeling like I'm going to freak out. If you have one or more children and are reading this, you are probably nodding your head in agreement. The first three months are like boot camp. If you don't die, you'll probably be fine! Seriously though, it's great. London helps me out when I drop the pacifier on the furry floor or need a wipe for the rainbow colored diaper that I"m changing for Zoe. Zoe has started smiling and almost laughing and is way more interactive in the last two weeks. I have lots of sweet moments and daily feel so grateful for being able to have this life with my family.
Almost every morning that I get up with London, she requests the same thing for breakfast and does so in third person. "London wants delicious pancakes" is the refrain that greets my ears as we head to the kitchen. Good thing I love pancakes, so there's always a stash here.
Roxy is still an allergic, itchy, hot-spot plagued mess with ear infections that never go away but she's incredible with the kids. She'll lay on the bed right next to Zoe and just chill. Occasionally she gives her a big lick on the face and then resumes her doggie-nap on the bed. I love that dog!
Today was funny-London was playing at her grandparents house in the back yard and when I came out there, she was naked in a bucket of water and splashing around in it as happy as could be. What a sight! Did I mention that our wild rabbit in the backyard, "Buster", is a permanent fixture? We leave carrots for him and he actually lounges all stretched out back there as if he's on vacation. I've never seen a rabbit relax in such a manner-very bizarre. He's a great sort-of-pet though since he takes care of himself and we get to admire him from afar. Ok, more to follow soon. It's movie time.
Almost every morning that I get up with London, she requests the same thing for breakfast and does so in third person. "London wants delicious pancakes" is the refrain that greets my ears as we head to the kitchen. Good thing I love pancakes, so there's always a stash here.
Roxy is still an allergic, itchy, hot-spot plagued mess with ear infections that never go away but she's incredible with the kids. She'll lay on the bed right next to Zoe and just chill. Occasionally she gives her a big lick on the face and then resumes her doggie-nap on the bed. I love that dog!
Today was funny-London was playing at her grandparents house in the back yard and when I came out there, she was naked in a bucket of water and splashing around in it as happy as could be. What a sight! Did I mention that our wild rabbit in the backyard, "Buster", is a permanent fixture? We leave carrots for him and he actually lounges all stretched out back there as if he's on vacation. I've never seen a rabbit relax in such a manner-very bizarre. He's a great sort-of-pet though since he takes care of himself and we get to admire him from afar. Ok, more to follow soon. It's movie time.
Monday, May 25, 2009
Sand and Love
Zoe is wiggling around on my lap and we just got back from the beach where we saw all our friends from the playgroup. It's a beautiful spring day outside and I smell suntan oil and sand on us which is always a good thing. London is passed out in her crib from digging holes and building castles. Roxy is asleep upside down on the couch as usual.
Life is going well and I can't complain. Yes, there have been some speed bumps here and there with the baby adjustment but we're fine. I keep reminding myself to just enjoy the here and now because it really does go by so quickly and I don't want to wish it away because of some sleepless nights. My girls are such a gift and I'm so excited to be able to raise them and see how they will turn out. It's fun to think of all the things we get to do together and how cute they will be when they start playing together-minus the inevitable squabbles.
My husband just planted flowers for me outside and is making our yard pretty. He probably doesn't realize that when I say "I love you" to him that I mean it as much as I did the first time I said it, but maybe he'll catch on. Isn't it funny how we get used to saying it and hearing it? The most meaningful phrase loses its luster when heard regularly. How sad. What can we do to revive it? That's my thought for the day...
Life is going well and I can't complain. Yes, there have been some speed bumps here and there with the baby adjustment but we're fine. I keep reminding myself to just enjoy the here and now because it really does go by so quickly and I don't want to wish it away because of some sleepless nights. My girls are such a gift and I'm so excited to be able to raise them and see how they will turn out. It's fun to think of all the things we get to do together and how cute they will be when they start playing together-minus the inevitable squabbles.
My husband just planted flowers for me outside and is making our yard pretty. He probably doesn't realize that when I say "I love you" to him that I mean it as much as I did the first time I said it, but maybe he'll catch on. Isn't it funny how we get used to saying it and hearing it? The most meaningful phrase loses its luster when heard regularly. How sad. What can we do to revive it? That's my thought for the day...
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Whee! Here We Go...
I'm here, just got waylaid a bit by childbirth! So, everything went really well and it was kind of like going on the giant scary roller coaster and then wahoo! You get off of it and feel exhilarated and tired and a multitude of emotions all at once. The sleep deprivation is hard for sure, but for some reason it's not as shocking to my system as it was the first time around. Go figure.
Zoe Skye is fabulous and she is a cute little bundle who changes a tad daily. She looks so much like her sister did at this age that it's uncanny-you can't tell them apart in pictures. London is doing really well with the introduction of a new family member. It must be hard to have someone else taking up mommy and daddy's time, but she's hanging in there. Afternoons are no fun but they were always challenging, so let's not jump to conclusions and say that it's about the loss of a spotlight.
One thing I will say is that she's only 2 and should not be expected to suddenly act like a "big girl"or take on "big sister responsibility" just yet. How can you expect that of a little person who's only been here for two years? Ridiculous! They are both babies in their own ways and while I'm one for a certain amount of discipline and not spoiling or coddling children, I think right now London needs extra love and that does equal more "uppies" from mom and dad.
Roxy took the new addition without batting a single fabulous white eyelash! She is a rock star dog and is gentle with both girls. By the way, she never became "just a dog". Just wanted to dispel that oft used and ill-named myth that does not apply to our four-legged family member. You can call this a vent post if you like, but it needed to be said. Ha ha! All is well and we are blessed. Now if we can just get more than two hours sleep at a time, we'll be in business.
Zoe Skye is fabulous and she is a cute little bundle who changes a tad daily. She looks so much like her sister did at this age that it's uncanny-you can't tell them apart in pictures. London is doing really well with the introduction of a new family member. It must be hard to have someone else taking up mommy and daddy's time, but she's hanging in there. Afternoons are no fun but they were always challenging, so let's not jump to conclusions and say that it's about the loss of a spotlight.
One thing I will say is that she's only 2 and should not be expected to suddenly act like a "big girl"or take on "big sister responsibility" just yet. How can you expect that of a little person who's only been here for two years? Ridiculous! They are both babies in their own ways and while I'm one for a certain amount of discipline and not spoiling or coddling children, I think right now London needs extra love and that does equal more "uppies" from mom and dad.
Roxy took the new addition without batting a single fabulous white eyelash! She is a rock star dog and is gentle with both girls. By the way, she never became "just a dog". Just wanted to dispel that oft used and ill-named myth that does not apply to our four-legged family member. You can call this a vent post if you like, but it needed to be said. Ha ha! All is well and we are blessed. Now if we can just get more than two hours sleep at a time, we'll be in business.
Friday, March 13, 2009
Pineapple and Ice Cream
This might be the last post for a while, depending on when this child decides to join the world. I'm just waiting and keeping busy with our daily lives and reminding myself that it's a trade-off. I'll be able to walk, bend over again and see my feet, in exchange for no sleep (you can't count 2-3 hours of sleep as rest. That's like an extended nap. Five or more only begin to qualify!). Hmm...it's rough either way you look at it.
At this point, I'm leaning toward the no sleep scenario because I keep getting stuck on the kitchen floor when I bend down to get a stray Cheerio or put on a shoe. I'm actually avoiding tasks that require bending, leaning or twisting! It's ridiculous. Laugh.
While shopping for groceries earlier, I grabbed a giant yellow pineapple on display at Henry's. Tomorrow I'm going to test out the pineapple theory. Supposedly it can help induce labor and that sounds better than Pitocin, a gnarly synthetic drug that the doctor's use for induction. There must be some reason it's (the fruit) listed on the internet as a natural alternative! C'mon, work with me here, my friends are starting to wonder if I'm ever going to have this baby! Oh, and just in case the fruit theory doesn't work, I got some Ben & Jerry's Vanilla with Chocolate Waffle Cone and Caramel Ice Cream. I could start a new theory if that works!!!
At this point, I'm leaning toward the no sleep scenario because I keep getting stuck on the kitchen floor when I bend down to get a stray Cheerio or put on a shoe. I'm actually avoiding tasks that require bending, leaning or twisting! It's ridiculous. Laugh.
While shopping for groceries earlier, I grabbed a giant yellow pineapple on display at Henry's. Tomorrow I'm going to test out the pineapple theory. Supposedly it can help induce labor and that sounds better than Pitocin, a gnarly synthetic drug that the doctor's use for induction. There must be some reason it's (the fruit) listed on the internet as a natural alternative! C'mon, work with me here, my friends are starting to wonder if I'm ever going to have this baby! Oh, and just in case the fruit theory doesn't work, I got some Ben & Jerry's Vanilla with Chocolate Waffle Cone and Caramel Ice Cream. I could start a new theory if that works!!!
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Carrots and a Watermelon
I've been in a whirlwind lately, which is nothing compared to what is coming up any day now with the impending birth. London had her 2nd birthday and it was great in so many ways. She fascinates me daily with what she says and how much her little brain is progressing. When she saw me put carrots on the checkout counter at Albertsons, she excitedly said "bunny carrots!" We have a little routine of feeding our old ones to the floppy eared resident in our back yard planter.
Lately, I've just been relishing our time together and trying to be positive about transporting a watermelon. People ask if it's easier the second time around and my response is that knowing what to expect makes it a bit more bearable. It's still an awkward state and I much prefer to be able to bend down without grunting like an elderly person with gout when tying my shoes. Wait, who am I kidding? I can't bend down! I can sit and bend my leg sideways to reach my foot. Flip flops are a lifesaver and my real shoes have a thick layer of dust on them in the closet. It's ok, only 3 weeks left and I'm done. A finish line in sight makes such a difference.
It also helps to know that this new little person will constantly be developing into a fascinating creature that will make me laugh and will help sustain the cute wildlife in our yard. We all get to watch her reveal her personality and become a part of our family. How cool is that? I'm excited to meet her.
Lately, I've just been relishing our time together and trying to be positive about transporting a watermelon. People ask if it's easier the second time around and my response is that knowing what to expect makes it a bit more bearable. It's still an awkward state and I much prefer to be able to bend down without grunting like an elderly person with gout when tying my shoes. Wait, who am I kidding? I can't bend down! I can sit and bend my leg sideways to reach my foot. Flip flops are a lifesaver and my real shoes have a thick layer of dust on them in the closet. It's ok, only 3 weeks left and I'm done. A finish line in sight makes such a difference.
It also helps to know that this new little person will constantly be developing into a fascinating creature that will make me laugh and will help sustain the cute wildlife in our yard. We all get to watch her reveal her personality and become a part of our family. How cool is that? I'm excited to meet her.
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Share
Tonight was a really cool dinner night. My husband and I decided we wanted to have burgers and I suggested In & Out Burger. He agreed and we drove there with our munchkin in the back seat who kept pointing out airplanes in the sky and the moon. It was a little late and I was worried that she was going to get cranky, but I hoped for the best. She read "Moo, Baa, La La La" while we waited in the drive thru line and was a total angel. London watched in fascination with her window down as the people inside made the food, then happily said "hi" to the cashier. When we got our food, she asked me for some and then said "back?" Scott looked at her and then at me for decoding.
Let me explain. Many times when London and I go out to run errands, I get food for us and then sit in the back seat with her in the parking lot while we eat together. She does really well this way and I get to keep her in her car seat-don't forget that I'm 8 months pregnant and a contained toddler is crucial at this point! Back to the story. I crawl into the back with her and Scott hands me my food and my drink. London says to me "share"? I hand her the strawberry shake and a fry. She says "thank you" and then requests "citsup" and looks at me with a distraught face when I take a sip of the shake. "Share"? This continues as we eat dinner and she alternates between telling me she's happy while doing a wiggle dance in her seat and sucking down the strawberry shake.
We finish our splurge and then head home. I remain in the back seat and our daughter comes up with a new game for me to play with her as she tickles my hand and laughs when I pull away. It was one of the most peaceful and fun evenings I've had in the last few days. Just think what we would have missed if we didn't go for burgers?
Let me explain. Many times when London and I go out to run errands, I get food for us and then sit in the back seat with her in the parking lot while we eat together. She does really well this way and I get to keep her in her car seat-don't forget that I'm 8 months pregnant and a contained toddler is crucial at this point! Back to the story. I crawl into the back with her and Scott hands me my food and my drink. London says to me "share"? I hand her the strawberry shake and a fry. She says "thank you" and then requests "citsup" and looks at me with a distraught face when I take a sip of the shake. "Share"? This continues as we eat dinner and she alternates between telling me she's happy while doing a wiggle dance in her seat and sucking down the strawberry shake.
We finish our splurge and then head home. I remain in the back seat and our daughter comes up with a new game for me to play with her as she tickles my hand and laughs when I pull away. It was one of the most peaceful and fun evenings I've had in the last few days. Just think what we would have missed if we didn't go for burgers?
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